Cheers to change

Change they say is inevitable…. It’s the law of nature… and its always for good… So when people  change, it shud also be for good… people change their priorities, attitude… n change the choice of people around them. But one very interesting thing is that a change in someone around us is really not appreciated….if the change is not what we wanted to see, what we expected or what we had advised, it’ll face a stiff resistance from us. What I find most baffling is how people can be so fake… sometimes the change they see is welcomed. They talk about how open minded and courageous one has been to let something go and accept the change. They call it a necessity for survival. Then for some changes they call us betrayers, that one has broken a promise. What people really don’t comprehend is what exactly has lead to that change. Change doesn’t happen overnight. By default the human intuition is to resist any change. So why people change? 

As life goes on, you transcend into different roles. All these roles require some traits (or a different portrayal) of you. And while playing all these different characters we don’t realize that we are changing. This is a stage which everyone goes thru… and is a must…. But the problem starts when we start confusing our roles. … & the limits….. Where we should be a friend, we start playing role of a boss. And where we should be emphatic we are silent…. And this we are triggering changes all around us… in situations… .& in people who never wanted to change… and this change is not free of cost… it takes away a lot… And then slowly we create rules for ourselves…for people to approach us…… we want them to behave in a certain way…. We want them to change….. but what changes is the intensity…of a relation…. lots to say but cn' t.... will finish with this......Even though we've changed and we're all trying to find our identities and places in life, somewhere we all know that whenever a tear rolls down across our face, we'll be together again because no matter where this crazy world takes us, nothing will ever change so much to the point where we're not all still friends. Cheers to change!!!!!!